we each must overcome our demons
What students need isn’t a lecture on abstinence. They need a community that sees sex as about mutual pleasure and intimacy, not point scoring or getting something, and that doesn’t shame or problematize female sexuality. Heterosexual women need male partners who are respectful, generous in bed and emotionally competent, and who treat women like people regardless of whether those women are girlfriends, one-night stands or friends with benefits. Sex, be it in a committed relationship or a more casual arrangement, doesn’t have to be the fraught power play or unpleasant interaction merely tolerated by young women. Sex is sex. Human beings throughout all of history have enjoyed it for very good reason. Consensual, mutually pleasurable sex is, for many people, at the top of their “favorite things” list.
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Anonymous asked: Can I ask you to draw, if possible, Kili sick and his brother takes care of him ? Something like that :)‘i’m here, brother. i always will be. i want to say that, even if you don’t hear me.’
Sorry, I saw behind the scenes hand holding and got really happy and started drawing these but then I suddenly got really sad so I couldn’t leave this with a happy ending. It was impossible.
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Anonymous asked: Could there be a situation where King Fili is trying to console an upset and jealous Kili?
My epic bird adventure, as seen on Twitter.
I wanted to bite that bird so much. It was so little and tasty and stupid.
Spoiler warnings for you guys who haven’t read the book.
The second and third movie hasn’t even come out and I’m already drawing sad things. Soooorry. I’ll draw something happy next time I promise.Large version (tumblr likes to resize images on dashboard)
Just sharing some rough sketches I did over a month ago. Bofur and the song of the Misty mountain. Plus, my first try at Dis with her brother. wanted to give her Thorin or Filis nose and forgot to make hers like that, but in my head Fili has his mums nose and eyes and Kili his dads eyes and nose. I also see her as being much less broody than Thorin, in fact quite a lighthearted soul, who teases her brother relentlessly to get him to smile. After all her sons are so unpretentious and fun loving. I see them getting that from their mum.
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